Grads & Mentors Words

Here is what they told us:

"This program is great! I've made life long friends, I've learned about myself, and I've grown as a submissive. This year hasn't always been easy but it has definitely been worth it. The admins and regents are amazing people. 10 outta 10 would recommend."   -Juju, DsMP 2019

"This program was amazingly transformative to me. It helped me see the things and people in my life that weren’t working or serving me both in my dynamic and vanilla day to day. It helped me recognize my chosen family and make lasting bonds with my class and mentors for years to come. It gave me incredible access to people and resources that I would otherwise likely have never had the opportunity to utilize. The program is a lot of work, but it is like anything else in life. You will get as much out as what you put in, so make sure you give it all you’ve got."   ~Lucky, AsMP 2019

"The Mentors AMP and AsMP programs are a great introduction to our kink community and opens the door to learning many overlooked soft skills giving you a moment to think deeper about how our paths effect us and those around us and hard skills that are a real good starting point. I was able to make connections with many mentors who have all made big impacts in my life and views on kink. I highly recommend it to anyone just starting out or who is new to our community in Austin."   -KnottieKittie, AsMP 2018 & AMP 2019

"This was hands-down one of the best things I've ever done for myself. I thought I would learn some techniques to help me out in the dungeon (which I did), but what I learned was so much more.  The program takes you on a deep-dive to get to know and have mastery over yourself to help you become the sort of dominant you wish to be.  The opportunity to learn from a diverse group of people with a wealth of knowledge has given me invaluable tools for my journey."   ~Miss Velvet Steele, DMP 2019, Admin & Mentor 2020-2024 

"The Dallas Mentors Program is a unique opportunity to grow and learn in so many ways.  I got to analyze the motives behind my life choices, meet people on an intimate level that I never would have come across in my daily life, develop and be exposed to skills for BDSM scenes, and establish friendships.  Sticking through this program improved my sense of self, my confidence as a domme, and my communication with my partner.  I am so glad that I stuck through until the end.  Thank you DMP!"   -Lilith, DMP 2019

"The Dallas submissive Mentors Program really helped me identify some key parts to myself to help me grow on my own personal journey.  If you’ve never experienced a soul dive, well get ready for this one, because depending on how much you want, what you want, and what your willing to put into the program, it can go very very in depth to who you are as a person while exploring kink.  To me, as a newbie in the community, I am very appreciative of this program, because it has given me the tools and the language to explain who I am as an s-type, what I want vs. what I need, and good friends that I have made throughout the year that I can talk to and rely upon whether it’s about BDSM/Kink or just about life.  It’s a great program especially for those new and finding their way through the lifestyle, I definitely recommend this program and would go through it again for sure. 10 out of 10 stars! 🤗"   -Jade, DsMP 2019

"I came to DMP through the recommendation of other graduates and find myself highly recommending this program. It remains current and relevant in todays climate, allowing participants to see the landscape of kink in an enlightened, fresh way. Accountability is key in our world. Knowing you’re ‘why’ framed as a foundation of the program points to its fundamental importance. A variety of ‘play’ are experienced as tastings throughout the program in a manner meant to showcase safety and give an impression of what deeper experiences can provide. The gem however are the mentors - continuing post-Covid to be worthy of the communities respect and mentees trust."   -Audra, DMP 2023

"DMP is a great program that helps to build you up by creating a strong foundation that you can use to build upon using many of the skills taught in the program. I wish I had gone through it earlier!"   -Ursus, DMP 2019, Admin 2020 & Mentor 2023-2024

"If you really want to better yourself as a Submissive and person, this long year course, is well worth it. I've learned so much about myself and I'm a better person because of it."   -Kitsune, AsMP 2023

"i am extremely grateful for the opportunity the Mentor program provided. As a new submissive to the lifestyle, i was nervous, overwhelmed, and and looking for direction. This program helped me to focus on who i am and what i am seeking. i was able to learn in a safe environment from mentors who were well experienced. I feel like the knowledge i gained and the friendships that were made will impact me and my journey as i continue to grow and evolve both in and out of the lifestyle."   -tx_carebear, DsMP 2023

"AMP: Must attend, something to be learned by all. Open yourself to the experience and explore who you are as well as understand what you are to others. Define your self and understand your role. There is a lot to explore and learn!"   -Bob, AMP 2023

"This is a program that I'd recommend to anyone trying to become more immersed in their community. This program will teach you alot about yourself on either side of the slash. I also love that this program has a mandatory service component to it. In the beginning we were told many of us would go on to continue to serve our communities. With all that I have gotten from this program, it's a joy to give back."   -Colby, AMP 2023

"It was a great way to meet your community, develop connections, learn about yourself and explore this fascinating world while developing skills that will help you in more ways than you can imagine."   -Lawrence, AMP 2023

"The Mentors Program is a safe place, where learning and growing to better yourself is the goal. I am so grateful for having the opportunity to join (third time is the charm) and I treasured the wisdom and knowledge that the mentors and presenters shared with us. And I had the chance to build wonderful friendships."   -kara-shishi, DsMP 2023, Admin & Mentor 2024

"Before I moved to Austin I signed up for the AMP.  Following my graduation I continued as a Mentor every opportunity I could.  I have lived in the Austin area for over a decade now.  It is an excellent program through which you can introduce yourself to our thriving community, educate yourself as to kink history, communication, safety, a vast selection of addition techniques and play styles, and additional forms of self education.  I recommend it for all interested in scene activities and even those slightly curious."   -Master Arach, AMP Graduate & Mentor

"I love how the admins of the DsMP have an open mind and are willing to look to all walks of our community for people that would be willing to share their knowledge and pass on the things that have been taught to so many of us over the years."   -Maria A. Trevino, Mentor

"The AMP gives Dominants a wide variety of experiences and knowledge about how to use their new power and skills. Hands-on instruction, along with valuable written information and reflection, means that these Doms will be ready to play in the community and will be safe players and leaders. I would have loved a program like this when I came into the scene years ago."   -Sir Roger, AMP Mentor 

"The Mentors Program was incredibly helpful during a transitional period in my life.  The introspection, relationship skills and specific techniques were invaluable to me.  I'm glad I am able to give back to this wonderful community and I'm proud to see how many of the graduates go on to become community leaders."   -Quickfinger, Graduate & Mentor

"I think the Mentor's Program has opened the door to a community that I was longing for but did not know much about. It gave me a primer on a broad range of topics and opened my eyes to so many possibilities that I would otherwise not have known. I am a better, more aware person thanks to their guidance and I am deeply thankful for all their efforts to mentor everyone. I would recommend the program to anyone looking to broaden their horizons."   -Antonidas, DMP 2024

"AsMP has been the one of the best experiences. I learned so much about myself. I didn’t know what to expect going in but it was life changing. I recommend it to everyone."   -Nola, AsMP 2024

"The AMP program was a fantastic experience for me. It helped me understand myself better as a person and as a Dominant. I really enjoyed meeting others within the community and having open conversations about the lifestyle and our experiences. The mentors they brought in were amazing. A group of admins created the lessons. They were very knowledgeable about the subjects they taught us. Our groups guide (can I use his name? Steven.) was fantastic. Not only as a mentor who taught us the ins and outs of the lifestyle, but also was there to answer questions outside of class time. He seemed to really care about us and our progress. From learning the psychology of what we do, to the tools and techniques, to consent and negotiations. This program is invaluable for beginners. It has opened a lot of doors for me, and I feel I’m a much better Domme with a much bigger support group."   -Saoirse Black, AMP 2024

"When I entered the lifestyle 5 years ago I didn't know what I didn't know about BDSM. I thought submission was weakness and loss of power. After AsMP, I now know that D/s is power exchange. That means that both parties benefit from the dynamic. Submission is a choice, and it takes something to surrender one's power to another. BDSM is inherently risky, physically, emotionally and mentally, and should not be entered into lightly. Through deep self exploration and learning opportunities during the mentoring program, I learned about myself, my values and strengths, as well as my desires and limits. AsMP has given me the tools that allow me to approach BDSM safe, sane and consensually." -Kitty, AsMP 2024

"For anyone considering doing this program I highly recommend! This is a deep dive into what makes you, 'YOU', and your 'WHY'. Why are we all here doing what it is we do and how we can be/do better. This was a great experience: the folx running the program, the volunteers educating and giving their time to teach the next generation is a true gift to our community. If you can make the the year commitment, please do it, you won't regret. xxoo"   -Ms Suzette, DMP 2024

"This program has given me so much insight and inspiration into the lifestyle. I feel like I'm a better person, even outside of the scene, after attending."   -Martha, AMP 2024

"The DMP is more than a kink class. It builds you up from the bottom. You'll get every bit out of this program that you put in. I recommend this for anyone new to this world and for those with decades of experience."   -Jason, DMP 2024

"This was an incredible investment of my time, and I will be auditing future classes just to keep learning. Beyond education and personal growth, this program offers invaluable networking. The mentors you will be introduced to are all community veterans who want you to reach out to them for any questions, are invested in your growth and are willing to share their stories and experiences. 

This program hits hard on the introspection- it makes you think about your purpose, your Why, your motivations, boundaries, and aspirations. It makes you look at your relationships and see what is or isn't serving you. It goes into the history of the leather scene, BIPOC history, navigating marriage and dynamics, making contracts, understanding group dynamics in the scene, how to identify which people you want to spend your energy with, all kinds of literal ""how-to's"", discussions with very diverse mentors and panelists, etc. etc. DM training, First-Aid/CPR training. And so much more. 

This program is very doable, but it shouldn't be easy. If you put in serious effort, you will see serious growth. Many of my friends have noted a significant increase in my confidence, ~I~ have noticed a significant increase in my confidence. Imposter syndrome will go fuck itself.

Even if you don't identify as a ""Dominant""- maybe you're a switch, curious, or an ineffable entity- you will get SO much from this program. I can't recommend it enough."   -LaRosaSalvaje, DMP 2024

*If you are a graduate &/or mentor and would like to share a review, please email us at admin@mentorsprogram.net.